Some guys find themselves stuck in the friend zone, unsure of why they can’t seem to turn that relationship into something more. If you find yourself with a lot of female friends but no girlfriends, there are certainly some things you’re doing incorrectly. Here are some issues you may have and what you need to do to change them.1) You lack confidence.This is the most common problem for men who find themselves perpetually stuck in the friend zone. There’s a reason why ladies seem to always fall for the jerks: they have confidence. When a guy has confidence, women are naturally drawn to him. It’s only later they find out the guy is a complete jerk.
Don’t be afraid to sell yourself or put yourself out there, just be confident when you do it. You’ll be face some rejection, but with confidence you’ll bounce back and meet someone else. Don’t be afraid to talk yourself up a bit.
2) You’re arrogant.This is the opposite of lacking confidence. Some guys take that confidence a bit too far and it comes across as arrogant or cocky. That’s an instant turn-off for many ladies.
This is tricky because it’s a fine line to walk between lacking self-confidence and coming across as arrogant. Talk yourself up, for sure, but don’t be afraid to be a bit self-deprecating. Showing a little bit of humility will go a long way in getting women interested in you.
3) You’re not doing all that you can to look your best.If a girl is going to date you, she has to find you attractive. This sounds vain, but it’s the truth. Thankfully, women can be forgiving of a guy’s flaws, but you’d better be doing everything you can to look your best.
This means that you should do your hair. You should wear nice looking clothes that fit your personality. You should get some exercise so you don’t look completely out of shape. Basically, you just need to look like you’re taking care of yourself. If you look like you’re just letting yourself go, women simply aren’t going to be attracted to you
4) You immediately fall in love.If, upon meeting a new girl, you start envisioning wedding bells, you’re going to scare her off. You might think you’re being romantic, but really you’re just being creepy. You can’t fall too hard too fast.
Take things slow. Even if you really, really like a girl, try to keep things in perspective. Let a relationship play out at its own pace. If you try to move too quickly, she’s going to get scared and leave.
5) You are just boring.If you don’t have anything to talk about or have nothing interesting about you, it’s going to be hard to meet women. People are attracted to people who seem interesting, not dull.
There are many ways to seem more interesting. You can read more books so you have things to talk about. You can get out and try some extreme sports. Just have some hobby so if there’s a lull in the conversation, you’ll have something interesting to bring up.